整理

整理家裡~
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注意氣候, 如果天氣很好, 就可以多洗一些衣服, 天氣不好的時候, 就洗那些非洗不可的衣服!
注意可以曬衣服的地方, 如果地方小, 就不要一次洗太多喔, 要不曬衣服的地方太擠也會有霉味!

洗衣服~先分類: 黑或白/衣服/內衣褲/襪子/床單/抹布/腳踏墊
內褲要先洗過, 襪子要先浸泡再刷過, 衣領要先刷過
洗衣機: 胸罩要放在特別的洗衣袋
床單要放在特大的洗衣袋
衣服洗好不要放在洗衣機內太久, 會有霉味

曬衣服~濕衣服要先抖開
衣服和衣服之間不要黏在一起, 要空氣流通才不會有霉味
寬鬆的衣褲要用衣夾子固定好

收衣服~要注意衣服是否全乾了, 如果不是很乾的話, 可以放在烘衣機裡, 再烘個十分鐘!
最好是要聞一下衣服的味道, 看是不是有霉味!
衣服收好後, 要把衣架&夾子收好!

烘衣服~如果要烘衣服的話, 要記得放香香紙, 讓衣服會香一點!
烘衣機裡面的棉屑要清乾淨, 這樣烘衣機的溫度才會正常!

燙衣服~熨斗要調好溫度
熨斗不可放在衣服上過久, 衣服會焦黃掉

摺衣服~各式衣服要有固定的折法, 這樣衣服要放歸位的時候, 就不會忽大忽小

放衣服~各家人的衣服用一個小籃子裝好他們的衣服, 請他們自己歸位!


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拖地板

掃地~先用掃把把家裡掃一次, 最好再用吸塵器再吸一次(如果沒有吸塵器的話,用除塵拖把)

拖地~確定好清潔劑&水的比例, 拖把要乾淨, 拖把放到水裡後, 要記得擰乾!
如果決定要用抹布擦地的話, 就要記得擰乾或是有另一個乾的抹布跟著溼的抹布擦拭

What am I good at?

All the movies and story books we read are about people who worked their way up to their career or a better self.

But, what if we are just not good in compare to others?

We are not good at art, sciences, math...
We are not good at business and no talent at all...

What can we do to differiate with others?
Every movie I saw or every book I read...the man or woman is actually good at something they do...they can either draw or design....cook or create....
But, what if we are just not the top one...we are just the regular guy among the group...

Then...what can we do to survive? To stand out? To make a living? I think all the make believe stories gave us a high hope above our confidence and belief....And what if we can't make it? There are goals and dreams to achieve...but also reality to work with....

Goals and dreams are for someone who can afford to take the shot...if not, others are just going to suck it up...and deal with life....That's why life is so not fair...There are only one number one for success...

生命~

1983-1995

我親愛的狗狗們.....最近我常常想到你們....
可能是我在反省自已為什麼不是一個盡職的主人
可能是我最近看了一部"Marley and me", 讓我想起了你們對我的好!
在沒人願意收養你們的情況下, 我不得已的把你們送上天堂了
我不是沒有試過要幫你們找一個好的家庭...
但是肥仔& Q-Q你們咬了新主人, 所以被迫讓我做出這種決定
肥肥, 你最無辜了, 但是你的體弱多病也沒有人願意收養你啊
至於, Kiss...我最心疼你了, 你因為太想家, 所以你一有機會你就跑走了~~
但是你不知道路回家, 也沒有這樣跑走過....所以你最後是被一輛大卡車撞死的...

我也想過帶你們走...但是, 我要去的地方根本容不下你們....
沒有地方給你們跑, 也沒有花園給你們住...
那裡的天氣也不適合你們....
所以, 我放棄你們了...

現在想想, 我不知道我是不是做出了對的決定...
你們會不會更喜歡這裡呢?
我沒有跟你們走到最後, 你們會不會怨我呢?
如果....如果....可以從頭來過的話, 我希望我們可以一起去挑戰!
For better or worse, we should have been together till the end...

My dear chows, I missed you all.
I really enjoyed your company while we were together!

I missed the times when we spend so much time together in the pool....

I missed the time when you snicked out to the golf course,
and I had to drive all the way out there to take you home!

I missed the time when I took you all to the park....
and then chased you around the park just because you didn't want to go.

I missed the time when you tried to protect me from some wild animal rushed into our house.

I missed the time when you all enjoyed the prime rib bones from Lawry's Prime Rib.

I missed the time when you chased the poolman around the garden
because they sent someone new for the job.

I missed the time when Lauren tried to ride you and called you a pony!

I missed the time when I found you outside the door step ... because you have been out the whole afternoon without me knowing it.

Dear, I know nothing last forever, but I truly believe if I have a second chance, I will make a very different decision about you.

I missed you all

生命~

So, at the end of your lifetime, you will be left with a name and numbers of years ....

Couple of days ago, my sister told me about my old time neighbor...
she died last month, from a heart attrack while she was driving the car.

A couple of months ago, my sister's father in law died of cancer at the age of 82.

Just yesterday, I heard about a friend of mine....age 24, is suffering for cancer...

I am really giving a thought about this...
I can't even remember the name of my great grand parent.
Meaning, when I am gone...most likely my grand kids or great grand children won't remember anything about me!

All there is left....is my name and the numbers of years I lived....

個性

每個人的個性都不一樣, 而且也不好改
但是當你遇到挫折的時候, 你會稍稍的矯正你自已的個性....
有時候, 是會變的更進步....
但是, 有時候就是開倒車了....越來越退步了!

原先我是對我自已的判斷力有很信心的...
但是這幾年下來, 我對我自已的信心已經瓦解了!
跟他認識那麼久....每一次的溝通跟我想像中的很不一樣
幾乎每次都是我在妥協....我不知道是我自己的個性真的出乎自已所料,
還是他真的是我的剋星?
有時候我認為....我只是不想要把自己的底牌亮出來,
但是我想想, 我有什麼底牌好亮的!

昨天, 我去幫兒子買sushi吃, 我去到那裡跟一位服務生說我要的壽司...
那位服務生應該有50幾歲了吧....
我點三樣壽司, 一個要六份, 一個要四份, 另一個要兩份....
她跟我大概重複了五六次....有那麼難嗎?
我看著她.....我在想....等我也是他的年紀的時候,
我也會是這樣嗎?
說好聽一點,他是很細心, 很謹慎的在處理我的訂單....
但是他今天是在一個旋轉壽司霸上班...
面對的是要速度很快服務很好的人吧!!!
如果我是他那個年紀就會是這樣的話, 那我拿什麼去跟別人競爭?
還是這是他自己的個性使然呢?